Thursday, October 31, 2013

Happy Halloween

Over the past several years I have noticed an increase in groups of people who choose not to celebrate Halloween. I find this interesting since I would venture to guess that most of them participated in it as children, and would not be surprised at all if these groups DID participate in Easter egg hunts (eggs were originally decorated with wishes written on them and placed in windowsills for the sun god Ra) and Christmas trees (in many countries evergreens were thought to keep away ghosts and witches, and were still seen as pagan symbols as late as the 1840's).  The child centered dress up and treat giving activities of today's Halloween is a time of celebration and fun... and as with most holidays, it IS what you make of it. In honor of the holiday, I wanted to share a post someone put on Facebook today. I think it expresses the sentiments I have on how I view Halloween very well...

On Halloween, don't be a Grinch. It's not a religious holiday, but still a fine excuse to extend fun, kindness, hospitality and generosity. Odds are that it may be the only day all year that you open your door to many of your neighbors. Odds are that this may be the only day of the year that at least one of your trick or treaters is greeted with kindness and a smile. Odds are that at least one family on your doorstep can't afford extracurriculars, movie tickets, roller skating, etc... For them, this night of free fun is anticipated for months. Odds are that the kid ringing your doorbell so late isn't actually being greedy, but got a late start with a single parent who had to work late. Odds are that many of those teens who show up at your doorstep aren't actually up to mischief. They may be simply clinging to a childhood that slipped away way too quickly in all the busyness of life. Just something to think about. On no other holiday does opportunity to be giving and compassionate come knocking on our doors.

4 comments:

Cindy Sharp said...

Good point.

Cheryl's Teapots2Quilting said...

I've always celebrated the 'fun' parts of Halloween, not the gory or scary parts. My witches are nice. Happy Halloween

Beth said...

I celebrated Halloween as a child and it was no big deal. Then when my children were little our church taught against it and we didn't celebrate it. Now I have grandchildren (and have moved) and we go all out! Last night when I passed out candy I didn't see one gory or scary costume, just a lot of fun.

Michele said...

That is exactly why I love Halloween, because it is just simple fun and I get to remain partly a kid just a little while long. I want my kids to have as much fun trick-or-treating as I did.